R.I.P. Tattoos

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R.I.P. tattoos have been some of the most popular images throughout the history of tattoos. People have a need to remember and pay tribute to lost loved ones and tattoos are an excellent way to memorialize someone. Whether it is a portrait, a name or a simple kanji tattoo, an R.I.P. tattoo has a deeper meaning than most others.

Memorialize a beloved family member
Memorialize a beloved family member

The Classic R.I.P. Tattoo Styles

A simple name design can make a beautiful tribute.
A simple name design can make a beautiful tribute.

People who get tattoos to memorialize someone usually follow some pretty universal trends. Most R.I.P. tattoo feature one or more of the following:

  1. The birth and death dates
  2. A depiction of something he or she loved, such as a specific animal, an instrument or the name of his or her children
  3. A symbol of his or her zodiac sign
  4. A portrait of the beloved’s face
  5. Red and/or white roses and other floral designs
  6. Hearts
  7. An angel or cherub
  8. Stars
  9. The deceased’s birthstone

Alternatives to the Classic Styles

Many of those who get R.I.P. and memorial tattoos are not the "kind of person" who gets tattoos. Often, getting a tattoo is a rite of passage during the grieving period to symbolize that we acknowledge the person is no longer with us on the physical plane but that we will always love them – and we want the world to know.

Abstract designs often make good memorials.
Abstract designs often make good memorials.

Some Guidelines

For those who wish to memorialize a love lost or a dear friend that has passed, there are options outside of the norm or what "everybody" does. If you are looking for a unique way to pay tribute, consider the following before you sit for your inking:

  • Create a design that is beautiful and that truly symbolizes the person you want to remember.
  • It’s not about what other people think when they see your tattoo ink; get what feels right to you, not someone else.
  • If something unorthodox or random seems to pop into your mind when thinking of the person you wish to memorialize, consider that as a possible tat design. Give yourself time to think about it, but if the image remains in your mind’s eye, go with it. This particular design is showing up for a reason and will likely make a beautiful tribute.
  • Always let at least 30 days pass from the date of the person’s passing. The last thing you want is a design you chose hastily that you will spend a lifetime regretting. If you can stand to wait longer, 90 days is a good mile marker to ensure you get something that will feel appropriate and representative of the deceased even years after you get it.
  • Try to stay positive; getting a tattoo that represents the tragic end rather than the life your loved one lived can have long-term effects of depression and sadness. It sounds odd, but try to celebrate the person who has passed as you mourn losing them.

The Portrait Memorial

Some choose to memorialize well known figures
Some choose to memorialize well known figures

If you have decided that a portrait of your loved one is the way to go for your R.I.P. tattoo, be completely sure that the tattoo artist you choose specializes in portraiture art. This is the most serious and difficult form of memorial tattooing and should not be taken lightly. To avoid less than superior craftsmanship, always:

  1. Ask to see a portfolio and be sure that it is both extensive and authentically the work of the artist who claims ownership of the work.
  2. If possible, try to get an artist who came referred to you through a friend or family member.
  3. Never settle for less. If you are not happy with what you see, do not think that you will be happy with what ends up on your skin. Keep looking until you find an artist who makes you feel comfortable.

Rest In Peace

You will never forget the people you lost and a tattoo can be a wonderful reminder of the joy and beauty they brought into your life. In order to keep that symbolism sacred, protect it and remember why you got your tattoo.


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Comments

Leah, sorry for your loss. Can you remember something that signifies your grandmother? Her favorite flower perhaps? Maybe her name intwined with a flower or her favorite animal, bird, etc,? Best wishes finding the right piece.

-- Contributed by: Jodie Michalak

i wanted to get a tatto in memory of my gram and i do not kno wat to do and if anyone has any ideas can u ploease let me kno. thanks

-- Contributed by: leah

i would like a flower for my mom .she past away 1yr and 9 months

-- Contributed by: dee

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